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But, from my vantage point, if your guy is divorced for six years and has a 50/50 custody situation with a 7-year-old girl, he and his ex should have a pretty good rhythm that leaves him a reasonable amount of free time on either weekdays, weekends or every other week.So it’s not that I don’t believe him — or any man — who has important parental obligations that come first, but rather, I believe my own rule about guys: “men do what they want.”If he wants to call, he’ll call. If he wants to make plans with you, he’ll make plans with you. And if he doesn’t — if you’re the easygoing, patient, “I totally-understand-you’re-a-single-dad” woman who is not getting her relationship needs met, you need to tell him just that.“Hey, Dan, it’s been fun getting to know you these past few months.The man I’m dating, however, texts or phones me every day.He does 99% of the initiating of contact; in fact, I think I have only initiated contact 2 or 3 times.It’s not like I’m keeping score or anything, but when I have to do all the reaching out, I don’t feel particularly valued or cherished.Do you think we figure out a way to set up a regular schedule when I can expect to hear from you and see you so that we can both get our needs met? It’s up to you, as CEO of your love life, to decide if he’s worth keeping around when you have to do all the heavy lifting.Because he’s a very involved father, we don’t get to see each other often, which I’m fine with; I wouldn’t even date him if he wasn’t an involved dad.Sometimes a few days will go by and I wouldn’t hear from him, and it seems lately I’ve been making all of the plans.
If you're interested in a divorced man with kids, you may be wondering how to navigate your relationship with the man as well as his kids.When you have to push him along or reach out too much, it means you are having to force things to an extent, and that simply does not work well.And it doesn’t work at all with an assertive, masculine man.Evan is absolutely right when he says that men do what they want to do and this is something I have particularly learned with the guy I am dating.A relationship works best when a man is making a consistent effort and doing a lot of the initiating.
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